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  Frequently Asked Questions

                       &

              Session Protocol             

When are you available for sessions?  I take sessions 7 days a week from  3:00 pm- 11:00pm ( Mon- Fri) with
open availability on the weekends.
Some morning sessions are available but need to be scheduled 48 hrs in advance.
Where are You located?  I am located in a safe location outside of Metro Detroit, easy access off I 75
Do you need a Personal slave?  No. I am currently no longer excepting any form of personal slaves.  Don't ask, the answer is no.  This also includes play partners etc.  Filming slaves  may apply via email but are still subject to a session rate

 

Do you accept gifts in exchange for session payment?  I will accept  amazon gift cards as part of your
deposit.  That's it.

When we meet, what can I do to please you? 
  • First having good hygiene is most important.  There is
      nothing more unappealing then someone who is not clean.  
  • Being on time is important.  Being too early can be just as impolite as being too late. Please be
    punctual.

  • Be respectful.  If I feel that you are behaving as if you expect me to impress you, then I will dismiss you.

      I do not tolerate arrogance or macho-masculine behavior in my presence.  

     Never coach me or suggest how  a session should progress.  If you feel that I am so incapable of carrying
     out the session that you feel the need to tell me what to do (topping from the bottom) than I will happily
     dismiss you. 
****( this does not mean holding back from an open dialogue on the phone before we meet or our first initial meeting when I ask you questions, as I dislike breaking the scene once we begin and I like to know things about you)
What are your hard limits (activities you do not participate in)
  • pussy worship
  • nipple worship,
  • heavy ass worship,
  • face sitting, or skin-on-skin smothering
  • full nudity
  • Switch  sessions ( I do not switch, I'm not against others playing a switch)
  • Brown showers or Roman showers
  • Any sexual activities, I will not let you " go down on me" or use you as a "fuck toy"
  • Any illegal activities
  • Drugs- that includes anyone using them at my space

Can I bring my own equipment?  Yes, you can bring some of your own things, as long as it's safe and clean.

Can I have photos of our session taken?  Yes. However, you may never post  them on any websites etc. for legal purposes.  I can also take professional photos and film/make a DVD of your session for an extra fee.  

Can I bring my girlfriend/wife/partner with me?  NO, unless you both consent to being filmed and ownership/content rights.
 
Do you offer classes /teach /train women to become Dominatrices?
Not at this time. 

I want to make you feel good, can I service you sexually?  NO!  Not in any way. If you want to make me happy, tip me, buy me gifts, contribute to my BDSM empire.  Having lots of random  submissive men "service me" does not make me feel good.  I have a private relationship for that.

Since we have sessioned before can we chat via text?  No.  I dislike texting and make notes several places on my site, ads, etc. that I do not answer texts or blocked calls. Texting is taking up my time and if you want my time you need to pay for it.

I have a specific fantasy and want to make sure it's perfect.  Can we have several chat's before our session?  I will do what I can to make you feel secure.  I am a professional and know what I am doing, however If you want to correspond several times a day, with texts, phone calls and emails for a week before your session, please remember my time is valuable.

 

I have had a bad experience with past "mistresses" that  left bruises and marks even though I requested they didn't.  Will you be able to promise no marks?  Yes.  There are techniques that skilled professionals use to avoid  dark bruising and welting while engaging in impact play.  Not only should you be warmed up, but also have after care to prevent any staying marks.
I only like a specific type of fetish/es.  Is it possible to have a session centered around my one fetish?
Yes, that's not a problem.
 
Will there be anyone else present during the session?   
There may be another Mistress in another room, not in a session, just at the dungeon as it is a big space. I am never alone at the location.

Will I be able to shower after the session if necessary?
Yes.  My bathroom has a shower and is stocked with clean towels, wash clothes, soap(scented and unscented,hypoallergenic, antibacterial) shampoo, etc.

Do you only do appointments/consultations with Males?
No, I except people of all walks of life, gender and race.  Everyone is welcome to come learn and explore. I find it odd when Pro- Dommes exclude certain people.






If you have other questions please email me at Sonia@MsSoniaVaughn.com


























 



MsSonia Vaughn.com

Dominatrix & BDSM              Consultant

Michigan Dominatrix       Mistress Sonia Vaughn

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